Person-Centred Therapy, initially developed by psychologist Carl Rogers, represents a shift away from the idea of the therapist as an expert authority who diagnoses and directs the client toward change. Rogers believed deeply in the inherent worth and capacity of every human being, proposing that people possess within themselves a natural drive toward growth, healing, and self-actualisation. This approach holds that psychological distress often arises when a person's sense of self becomes distorted by the conditional approval of others, leading them to suppress their true feelings and needs to feel accepted and loved. Person-Centred Therapy, therefore, is not about fixing or correcting the client, but about creating the right conditions - by offering consistent and genuine warmth, understanding, and presence, hidden or denied parts of ourselves can be brought back into awareness and integrated. This collaborative process facilitates insight, clarity, and therefore change.
Trauma lives in the present as much as the past - in how we move through the world, how safety is sensed, how possible or threatening relationships feel. Processing trauma requires a safe and consistent relational experience to be integrated. As hardship and pain often disconnect us from our bodies, I pay close attention to your body responses and what can be safely attended to in any given moment. Ultimately, therapy doesn't require reliving painful memories, but rather processing their aftermath and by doing so, restoring our capacity to feel, to be present, and to trust our own experience again.
I believe that individuals cannot be separated from the wider sociopolitical contexts, and there should be space in therapy for exploring how they affect us. I am mindful of how often responsibility for one's wellbeing is placed entirely on the individual without acknowledging systemic factors, and the fact that some of our distress is a perfectly healthy response to harmful circumstances. I work from the belief that much of what gets labelled as dysfunction is a response to difficult or harmful circumstances, and that the problem often lies in the conditions, rather than in the person.
Working from an anti-oppressive perspective aims to embrace the complexity of human experience beyond labels or diagnoses, and to question the motivation to "fix" ourselves to fit into harmful systems. Instead, it attempts to aid the process of freeing ourselves from internal and external impositions, often embracing experiences and identities that are outside of dominant norms.
For who?
This approach is particularly powerful for clients who have experienced criticism, shame, or emotional invalidation, as the consistent experience of being truly heard and accepted can itself be profoundly transformative. Over time, clients often develop greater self-compassion, a clearer sense of their own values and needs, and the confidence to live more fully and authentically in the world.
How does it look like in practice?
Person-Centred Therapy can look and feel distinctly different from more directive or structured therapeutic approaches. I follow your lead, and sessions are guided by what you bring — your feelings, concerns, and lived experience, while my role is to listen with deep attentiveness, reflect meaningfully, and hold a warm, accepting presence throughout. Our sessions move at your pace, and I follow your lead, respecting your autonomy and choice. I am not passive in my way of working, encouraging open dialogue and collaboration; some sessions are open and reflective, and some can be more focused and practical.
In my work, I also draw on my background in psychology, trauma training, and my lived experience. I offer psychoeducation and often share resources where it feels appropriate, but it is always an offering, not a prescription.
I often find that different ways of accessing experience can help - journalling, metaphor, images, poetry, body awareness, and I believe there's room in therapy for the creative and the spiritual.
I work in an open-ended way with most clients, but I am also open to working with a set number of sessions if you find that structure would support you better.
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